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Revenge Tastes Like Metal?

So, know it has been a while since I last posted but as most of you know I am moving/have moved. I am in the process of trying to get settled in my new place and that is no small task.  We have needed new everything–we kept virtually nothing from our old life mostly because there was very little to keep/worth keeping.

Anyways, I am certain there is much to tell and much worth blogging about but I think I am just going to get into the swing of things slowly and tell you about our Cal King Bed fiasco.  We recently went shopping for furniture and picked out a new sofa, dining room set and bedroom set.  I was glad that we found some things we could agree on…except for our bed. I have never been a big fan of the whole cal king thing.  I mean, I know a whole lot of people do it and love it but I never saw it as being for me.  I remember the first time I ever saw one I thought that it was really silly looking…

Needless to say I was set on getting the queen and so we ordered it.  Later that night, after speaking with his cousin who has a king, Issa decided that he wanted the king and gosh darn-it he couldn’t't be talked out of it. “I mean, the upgrade is basically free!” he said. They were running a promotion where the king set was 200 more than the queen and then you got a 200 dollar discount. So, yes, that part was free. I reminded him that there were other costs associated with the behemoth of a bed…like the cost of upsizing the mattress, the cost of cal king bedsheets….

“It’s NOMINAL,” he said “I want to do it, I am going to do it.”

Ok. Fine.

So after hoisting the oversized headboard up to the second story of our townhouse via the patio and assembling the bed, off we went to look for bedding. Three days and twice what we would have spent on a queen size comforter later, we took home a bed in a bag that we thought might do the trick….After washing the sheets and placing the bedskirt on the ample boxspring, we unfurled the comforter to find a DISGUSTING bird-poopesque looking stain on the end of it.

We promptly stuffed everything in a trash bag and took it back to Macy’s…where they refunded our money and off we went again for a fourth day of bedding hunting. It was impossible. He likes geometric, I like floral.

Finally, at about 8:00 tonight, we came to JC Penny and were fortunate to find a comforter set on clearance and a coordinating throw pillow and a decent thread count sheet set to match for the same amount that we spent on the bird-poop set (from China, might I add).

On our way out the door it hit me that there were still a million things we needed. Like plates and silverware.

I begged Issa to give me a minute or two to see if I could find a set of plates and silverware because we don’t have any–well, we have our Christmas set…but no silverware.

He refused. “No, Jess. I want to see my game.” I wanted to pitch a fit but I was too tired, so I acquiesed.

Then tonight, as we were unpacking our shopping bags, Issa decided to have a bowl of cereal. I told him we didn’t have any silverware and that he was welcome to the Christmas dishes but would have to find something to use as a spoon…I recommended the measuring spoon.

He scoffed and whined a bit at his plight. He poured a bowl anyway and sat down only to find that the measuring spoon tasted just like metal when it hit his tongue and I couldn’t help myself…I laughed…

I have to admit, I was a little bitter about the whole bed thing…and apparently so was his cereal.

Warning: Marriage and Home Decor DO NOT Mix

So, when we rented our apartment, the agent told us that we could hire this guy to paint us a few accent walls (or all the walls if we wanted).  When I told Issa, he was excited.  I was excited that he was excited and then…

Well, it has become apparent that Issa and I have quite different taste.  If I were to sum his taste up with a piece of art it would be this:

 

And if I were to sum up my taste in a piece of art, it would be this:

He wants clean lines and I demand whimsy. Although I desire to respect his need for order and peace, I can’t help but feel as though the cold winter air is blowing through me when I am confined to a two tone color palate…

We will have to figure out some way to negotiate around this issue–and by negotiate I do mean get him to understand that the home is MY domain. Suggestions?

Congratulations, Honey!

Well, it’s over….the bar is done and allow me to say that you made quite the impressive showing!!!  I have never seen a more dedicated soul.  You amaze me at every turn.  You put everything you had into this and you even put things I didn’t think you had into this.  You are a brilliant, hard-working, committed person who I am quite proud to call my husband.

You have an exciting future! I can’t wait to see what you will do next.

All my love,

Me

Good Luck, Honey!

Well, I am having a hard time sleeping. Issa is staying at his dad’s while taking the bar exam. I know that right about now is the time he does that weird touch his face thing….and instead I have two snoring farting dogs sharing the bed with me…ok, well it’s pretty much the same as having Issa here–different species….

Well, I just wanted to say that I had such a great time last night. We went to this awesome restaurant and took a romantic carriage ride around Seaport Village…I will write more about that later but for now…I want to say…

Good luck, honey! You have worked so very hard to get to this point and I know you will do well. I love you! I miss you! Hurry up with the silly test so you can come home to me.

Happy 2nd Anniversary!

Well, Babe…

It’s been two years since our wedding and wow! We have been through and done so very much since then! Two big moves and life changes later, here we are right back where we started..this time as a married couple.  Did you ever think this was where we would be? When we were young this life seemed so far away and now it seems as though we can’t stop the days from flying by….

Well, Issa, here is what I really want to say: Tomorrow is a big day for you–for us.  You have worked harder and been more dedicated to studying for this exam than I have ever seen…and you, sir, are a pretty dedicated guy.  I want you to know that the best gift you could have ever given me on our anniversary is the gift of knowing that you will always take care of me. You will always use all of your resources to make sure that I am safe and secure. 

I just wanted you to know that today, on our anniversary…no card or flowers…nothing is better at showing me how much you love me–how much you care…than your dedication to our future.

I love you so very much, Issa.

Happy anniversary.

Love,

Me